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Women Over 50: How to Re-launch Your Life in Three Easy Steps

Women Over 50: How to Re-launch Your Life in Three Easy Steps

Are you ready to push to “On” button to re-launch your life? Are you asking, “What exactly is a re-launch?” Out of curiosity I looked up “re-launch” and found no definitions in any of the standard dictionaries.

So I looked up “launch” and found many definitions, including the following from Wikipedia:

  • Launch
  • 1a. To throw or propel with force; hurl: launch a spear. b. To set or thrust (a self-propelled craft or projectile) in motion: launch a rocket; launch a torpedo. 2. To set going; initiate: launch a career; launch a business venture. 3. To give (someone) a start, as in a career or vocation.
  • v.intr.  1. To begin a new venture or phase; embark: launch forth on a dangerous mission; launched out on her own after college.  2. To enter enthusiastically into something; plunge: launched into a description of the movie.

Oh, my heart sings remembering the various first “launchings” of my life. First love, first career, first new house…you know what I mean! However, if we are over 50, it may have been a long time since we felt the “rush” of a new venture.

Let’s be honest, girlfriends. We may not have the energy or motivation necessary to “set or thrust as in launch a rocket”, “propel with force” or “plunge” as the dictionary defines launch.

To tell the truth, I felt somewhat exhausted and discouraged reading the definition of “launching.” Surely it can be done with more grace and ease, with more of a feminine touch. I decided to look up the one definition of “re-launch” from Wikipedia and found the following reference:

Re-launch can refer to several things, including:

  • Re-launch (process), is a marketing process in which a brand or product (such as a magazine or a car) is re-launched, which may involve new packaging, style or new features
  • Re-launch (career), is a process by which people resume careers after a career break

Whew, re-launching sounds more my speed. I love the concept of repackaging, creating a new style or adding new features-now that I can wrap my head around them! No need to start over, from scratch:  find out what works and revitalize!

So, how can you re-launch/revitalize in 3 easy steps:

1. Read the signs that it is time to re-launch.

When you begin to feel that your life/ work is just “not working well” or “you just can’t do it this way anymore” it may be time to consider a re-launch.

Pattie Heisser, Founder & President of 50+Fabulous, recently related the following to me while discussing this topic.  As she stepped out of the car on her way into a corporate interview, she remembered thinking “this is just not me anymore.” She went home and utilized the skills developed from her years in the business world, and re-launched herself into a venture she was most passionate about…getting boomers and beyond the information necessary to create fabulous lives for themselves at midlife. Voila! 50Fabulous.com.

2. Don’t “throw the baby out with the bath water.”

With a re-launch, we can identify the parts of our life that we are most passionate about or work the best and repackage them. Re-launching is a step-by-step process whereby we take our existing skills, best traits and repackage them, rather than starting over. For most women this is a huge relief.

Re-launching can occur in any area of our lives, from re-decorating our homes to making over our careers. Take some time to assess what you enjoy or would like to explore and apply your existing strengths to a new or buried interest. For me, re-launching consisted of repackaging my coaching skills and taking them from the executive boardroom onto the telephone and into the lives of 50 plus women, everywhere, in the form of life coaching.

3. Get started. Right NOW!

Begin your makeover with this new year!

5 Comments

Posted by michaelle on 02/05 at 09:22 AM

The up beat sound you generate is great,it makes things seem possible.  But the truth is a lot of people (like me) are still walking around lost. I mean we have a good life, but still feel as if we are missing the boat on what it is exactly that we should be doing NOW.  We got married, had children and raised them to become well adjusted adults, we had a marriage, or maybe two where we supported our husbands on THEIR quest into the world, and we spent most of our energy focusing on the other people in our lives. I reliaze that there in lies the hurtal to over come. Readjusting our focus, but when you have spent your whole adult life with the focus on other people, how then do you turn that focus on yourself. And why is it so SCARY!!!!!!!?

Posted by Eileen on 02/07 at 07:32 AM

I’m in the same situation as you are, Michaelle! I know what I want to do and the changes I want to make and I’ve known it for a long time. I find myself laid off and my youngest will be leaving for college in the fall. All of a sudden, I don’t feel connected to my home and I feel like I’m ready to leave and move on finally. I also started dabbling in the career of my dreams - selling vintage clothing. I just finished building a webstore. It is time for me and I’m not scared anymore. I can now let go and try to make a go at a new life in a new place.

Posted by Terri Jones on 02/13 at 08:31 PM

How does one start focusing on ourselves instead of others?  My whole life has been on others needs and wants.  Now I run to chocolate for comfort.  I am sick and tired and scared and have no money… I feel stupid and empty…. am I alone?  Is it mid life crisis?, or just me?

Posted by Susan Whipple on 02/14 at 01:01 PM

Hi, Susan Whipple, Life and Work columnist here:

Great conversation. How do we start focusing on ourselves? We start with small steps, but start we must!

I, too. have some big life challenges daily migraines, fibromyalgia, and a chronic back condition. Yet, as a life and career coach, I must practice what I preach. Take a peek at my previous column for some ideas:

You Are Not Self-ish, You Are Self-full Keeping Your Energy Tank Full. Here’s the link to my Nov. 5th column on this topic. http://tinyurl.com/yl6ldbs

Let’s share strategies with each other!

Susan

Posted by Eileen on 02/14 at 02:56 PM

I am a single mother of 3 who has been divorced and widowed. Both were big changes but I still was focused on my children and not on me. Now they are grown up and the last one leaving for college. I was scared for a while to be all alone but then I took one of the empty bedrooms and made it “MINE”. It’s now an office/sewing room and it’s full of the things I love. Then I decided that Saturday mornings were my special time. I get out and spend time doing what I love. I shop my favorite little shops, get my hair done, whatever and I am re-energized for the week. It’s so much fun to just set aside a Saturday morning and plan those hours just around you!

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